How You Should Approach Women! Approaching women might sound like no big deal at first, but plenty of men actually struggle with a real fear of doing it. That fear runs deep, rooted partly in our evolutionary past and reinforced by the way we're raised today. Back in prehistoric times, approaching a woman was genuinely risky, since women belonged to the alpha male. He was always the strongest of the group, and nobody wanted to pick a fight with him, since the odds of losing were pretty high. Modern upbringing tends to soften men. Being dominant, being strong, the occasional bit of roughhousing — all of that gets framed as bad behavior, even though it's completely natural. Yet it's exactly that dominance and drive that gives a man the courage to approach a woman in the first place. So what's the best way to actually do it? There's no single magic formula, but the fundamentals stay the same. First and foremost, you should radiate self-confidence and show that approaching women is genuinely no big deal to you. That comes with practice — practice creates a learning process that moves you forward. The more you do it, the better you get at approaching women, and that pays off in the long run.

Tips and Tricks for Approaching Women

Approaching women is an art you have to learn. On one hand, actually walking up and talking to a woman is a huge hurdle. You don't want to come across as intrusive, but you also don't want to expose yourself to the embarrassment of failing — yet women genuinely want to be approached! Women love being approached, because it boosts their self-worth. It feels good to them, as long as you're not too pushy about it. So being approached is actually a good thing for women. On the other hand, if it doesn't work out, you shouldn't feel bad about it — you had the courage to try, which is more than a lot of men can say for themselves. So there's no reason to feel ashamed if you get turned down; you should feel proud of yourself instead. One good tip for overcoming the fear of approaching and actually talking to women is the three-second rule. The idea is that you have to approach the woman within three seconds at the latest, because after that your brain kicks into overdrive, the fear sets in, and it can leave you completely frozen.Approaching Women

Alternatives to Approaching Women

Besides directly approaching a woman on the street or in a club, there's also the option of meeting people through your wider circle of friends and acquaintances. That kind of getting-to-know-each-other is usually easier, since it takes away the need to approach a woman cold. That said, you should be aware that this route can very easily land you in the friend zone, which obviously isn't the goal. To make approaching women easier, apps have already been developed where the in-person approach gets replaced by messaging instead. Still, a man should keep in mind that actually approaching a woman is a masculine trait that creates genuine attractiveness.